NUSWhispers – Confession #98370

Hi parents, I am a mother to a 2 year old and 5 months old. Ever since my 5 months old was born, I feel more distant from my husband. I know my husband likes to watch porn but I'm not sure of the frequency before we got married. In the recent months, I noticed him pleasuring himself with porn twice in the night when everyone has gone to bed. I am aware I'm not meeting his needs because I am always tired due to work and parenting. I'm not sure if he is turning to pornography because of his addiction to it or that I'm simply not meeting his needs. I can't help but feel upset. We did the deed on Monday and he turned to pornography on Friday. Is this normal?