NUSWhispers – Confession #103643

Honestly, I made a pact with myself to no longer date men who don't work out on a regular basis (and a 'regular basis' for me is about 3-4 times a week for at least an hour). It has to be a part of his routine, like he doesn't feel right when he doesn't go to the gym or workout at home; it has to be a part of his lifestyle. Not necessarily 0% body fat as I'm not into super tight muscular men, but he has to look good and shapely, with or without clothing. he also needs to eat at least moderately healthy, and not a heavy drinker/non-smoker . So many men out here refuse to take care of themselves and expect women to just accept and deal with it especially because of this whole body positivity movement, and I'm not with it. Even if it means only dating 1 boy a year, quality over quantity.