NUSWhispers – Confession #10171

Over the past week or so I've seen some confessions by insecure girls who've smaller-than-A boobs. I'm so sorry that you fellow girls exist and have to endure this very real misery and insecurity, but at the same time also so relieved that yall exist. Fellow girls who silently seethe when A cup girls whine about their "small boobs" - what even, they don't even know how bad it gets! And unlike guys, we can't hide our size at mere first glance in public either. Life. Anyway, here's a great repost from NTU Confessions: "To the girl who posted about having a flat chest: Just wanna tell you that you're really not alone in this. I can totally understand how you feel as I have the same problem. I am almost entirely flat-chested, and have been insecure about it since secondary school days. Like you, I can't fit an A cup. I'm an AA or AAA cup (I think some insensitive ppl are gonna say 'then wear a bra for what?'. I'm lazy to give an in depth explanation but in general, small girls need to wear bras to feel a bit more confident and 'less exposed'). You can buy AA or AAA cup bras from lulalu.com. The founders of this bra brand are also small like us they understand how it feels too :') You should try out some of their bras! Quite expensive though, cos you have to ship them from the U.S., but wearing a bra that fits well will really make you feel more confident. (I'm not paid for advertising) I used to feel abnormal and often wondered whether I am the ONLY unfortunate one with such a flat chest. So I often googled about my problem to see whether there are other girls in the same plight lol. And there are! You can search for forums and talk to the girls who really understand how it feels. That's how I found out about lulalu.com by the way. Haha there are many A cup girls online complaining about how they are too small and want a B or C cup. But whoa I'll be extremely overjoyed if I can even fill an A cup. When I was younger (start of uni) I thought that no one would ever wanna date someone like me cos of my small boobs and would foresee my sad lonely future haha. But now I have a loving boyfriend, who always reassures me that he loves me for who I am, small boobs or not. And that he still finds me beautiful. Compared to the past, I think my level of insecurity has greatly decreased already. But now and then, I will irrationally have some breakdowns and feel upset that I am like this and start questioning whether my boyfriend will leave me for someone with boobs that he can at least be able to grab lollll. When I'm insecure like that, he actually feels sad too and will gently console me with words of assurance. His support really helps to remind me that there's so much more about me than just simply my non-existent boobs. I don't know whether you're currently worrying about not being able to find a bf (you didn't mention but somehow so many guys replied your post to say they like small boobs lol), but anyway I'm sure you will meet someone who will love you for who you are (damn cliched but it's true la) cos anyone who doesn't love you just cos of your boobs is definitely not worth your time anyway. Anyway, I found out that during pregnancy our boobs will grow for sure (like second puberty! Yay!). So you get two bonuses: bigger boobs and a baby! Haha but please don't get pregnant just for bigger boobs. Hope you feel better knowing that you're not alone :) "